CHICKS WITH DICKS (not what you think)
Every woman has a penis. It is invisible. It takes the form of the fiery love that erupts from between (and thru) her breasts—namely her heart. This goes a long way in explaining why one current slang word for breasts is ‘chesticles’. What lies between a man’s testicles? The same thing as what lies between the woman’s breasts. But being manifested as polar opposites in the form of physical male/female bodies, they take on forms that only look different on the physical plane.
Is it any wonder why so many men (in this country) are afraid to open their hearts fully to the women in their lives? Deep down, each man knows (if only unconsciously) that he must also surrender the most vulnerable part of himself to this woman before him, just as the woman has surrendered the most vulnerable part of herself to him. From the state of things in this overly mechanical and industrialized country, it is safe to say that few men are opening themselves up at all.
As a result of this, many women are feeling unfulfilled, if not downright ripped off because they gave something of themselves that was not returned in like fashion by the men in their lives. Generally speaking, the women in these relationships were usually chased by cowardly men who used every trick in the book to get her in his bed. I say cowardly, because they are afraid to open themselves up to any degree, lacking true bravery, i.e., cowardly. Instead of using an open heart as Spirit intends, they use every deception possible.
And since most women have rarely if ever even met a real spiritual man, they naturally assume that this cowardly behavior of men is just normal. So they usually fall for the various ploys that seek to subvert the natural order.
And so those men who actually do want to surrender their hearts then have a difficult time finding just one woman who is willing to surrender her body because most women have been tricked so often that they are sick of it all, weary of getting stuck with another cowardly jerk. After years of bad relationships, they are no longer able to recognize the genuine article when he appears, opting to mistrust all men, closing themselves off to every one of them (including the genuinely loving ones), sometimes even attempting to find what they are looking for in the same sex—lesbianism.
If this whole sad situation is to be remedied, then men must stop chasing women, for the natural order of the universe doesn’t work that way and never has. Men must be willing to be open-hearted, little by little, bit by bit, in order to experience fulfilling relationships.
For any man to experience a truly spiritual, uplifting, exciting, intimate, and thoroughly ecstatic relationship (or more than one) then he must soon realize what every male Tantra practitioner knows by experience—that a hard phallus must always be accompanied by a soft heart.
This is the Law of Polarity in action. This is the natural way of the cosmos.
