SPIRITUAL SEXISM OR MALE CHAUVINISM & THE MYSTERY OF THE BITCH
I have made the connection between the hermetic spiritual way that human love relationships should work and the way a neophyte must raise himself up spiritually as it pertains to the relationship between his spirit and soul. This comes as a bit of a shock that I didn’t notice this before, as it is so obvious.
Simply stated, the basic proper Hermetic mode of operation in a human love relationship is for the man to lead the woman.
Likewise, within the spiritual neophyte, it is the indwelling Spirit (positive or male) that should lead the Soul (negative or female).
Though I don’t like quoting the bible, I will mention that it does say that in marriage a woman should follow her husband who should lead her to God, and lead both of them in general. This is a remarkably overt bit of Truth in a book that on the surface seems loaded with hypocritical statements and undecipherable nonsense. However, most people read that little statement about spiritual leadership and simply cannot understand its true meaning. The result is that most Christian men use this little statement in the “good book” to justify all manner of unjust behavior and abuses towards their wives, all in the name of God.
What nearly none of them realize is that the statement is only true in an ideal type of spiritual relationship in which the man is already enlightened. Only in this way can all manner of abuse and errors be avoided.
Late Night Analogy. The thought just occurred that men and women relate to each other just like the Conscious and Subconscious parts of our minds relate to each other. This insight results from utilizing analogy after comprehending the concept of the Hermetic Couple.
It is the job of the male-conscious part of the mind to receive information directly from God and transfer these thoughts and ideas into the female-subconscious part of the mind. It is then the job of the female-subconscious part of the mind to manifest whatever idea-seed is placed into it.
This process that occurs in the mind is really no different from what we see in nature, with the seed falling on fertile soil and producing a tree or vine, etc. In “Mother Nature” it is the seed that acts as the male, utilizing its DNA programming code to instruct feminine nature on what to produce, what fruit to create. Each part is dependant on the other for fulfillment. The seed is useless on its own. Fertile soil is useless on its own. Together, they transform each other into something different and greater than the sum of the individual parts. The seed instructs nature. In Nature itself…
The male leads the female.
This is the whole secret of Sex Magick. In this esoteric practice, it is the duty of the man to keep his mind firmly focused on what goal he is after magickally, and it is the duty of the female to magickally manifest whatever was in the mind of the male operator, which is a natural ability of hers. In sex magickal operations…
The male leads the female.
This is also the Key to correctly operating the Mind itself to create a useful life—use the imagination and will power (male functions) to access the void of the subconscious (female) and place into this mental “womb” the idea one wishes to manifest in the ordinary conscious waking world. The mind is having sex with itself to produce your life as you know it. Think junk, get junk. Think happiness, get happiness. This mental sexual activity is also the secret of Meditation and Hypnosis or mind programming. In the correct operation of the mind…
The male leads the female.
These examples bring us back to the ideal correct Hermetic relationship between human beings. Ideally,… The male leads the female.
No doubt this will be a huge shock to most women, who for the most part think that they are the real leaders in relationships because they almost always get what they want just by withholding sex from the man attached to her. Such heartlessness & insanity are the actions of what we commonly call a bitch. A bitch is a pitiful creature, a directionless woman who thinks she knows better than nature itself by ordering her man around. All the world recognizes her and hates her, hardly knowing the real underlying reason for such universal disdain, which is her general rejection of the correct order of things.
Of course the fault is not entirely hers alone. The reason most women turn into bitches is because the men they are with are spiritual pussies, for lack of a more attention-drawing term.
Most men are unaware (as are women) of their true spiritual natures or their proper roles in life. Moreover they also do not know how to operate their minds, much less how to clean out the residue of neurosis that linger in the subconscious. The result is a man who is led about by his own subconscious complexes and fears (as is nearly everyone). The result when a man like this is coupled with an ordinary women is predictable. She turns into a bitch and he into a henpecked husband. Neither knows true happiness and never will, unless a drastic spiritual changes occurs. Since this change rarely occurs in most marriages, the result is a national divorce rate over 50% and still getting worse.
Why does the woman turn into a hysterical bitch in the first place? Fact is, she can’t help but behave this way because she represents nature itself, and nature needs to be instructed in order to be fulfilled, to be useful. In nature, if the seed is of insufficient strength, imagination and will to provide the needed instructions, what happens? The seed is destroyed. It is literally nagged and bitched to death, in Nature’s own way. The seed is attacked by nature itself, is abused by nature, corrupted by nature, and is absorbed by nature thru decomposition, literally vampirizing the seed till there is nothing left but an empty shell.
Take a thoroughly careful examination of any elderly couple who have endured an unhappy marriage…what is there? An angry (bitchy) old woman and a powerless shell of a man (vampire victim). Neither has any hope for happiness. Both have wasted their lives. Only death ends such tragedy.
Apply this same situation to the human mind and what do you get? The same result! Look around and what you do see? People angry with themselves, mostly because their very lives are unfulfilled. They have not taken control of their minds. They have not consciously planted their goals into their mental womb of the subconscious. They have reaped nothing with their lives and are now best with nothing but unhappiness and are angry (bitchy) with life itself. Their whole life history is replete with dead seed-ideas that never came to fruition from out of their own minds. Their own minds become bitchy and pissed off with itself.
Stated another way, the female subconscious half of the mind has never received sufficient mental stimulation from the male conscious half, necessary to arouse it into action to produce anything at all. The result is a wasted life, an unused mind whose mental harvest fields are barren, strewn with empty seed shells. The female subconscious revolts at not having been used, not being fulfilled and lashes out (bitches) at the conscious mind which reacts with sadness and depression at the messages coming from deep within, for it knows the truth of these messages. The mind itself has been wasted. And since mind itself creates life and the experience of life, the result is a wasted life thru disuse of the proper operation of the mind.
This is what one sees everywhere one looks. Wasted lives. Unused minds. Untapped potential. The subconscious can only return or produce what is plugged into it. Since most people never operate their minds properly, they plug nothing but trash into their subconscious which manifests in a life equivalent to trash. The subconscious mind takes over since the conscious is not busy leading it. Most human beings behave like this without even knowing it. They let their subconscious mind rule over their entire lives, simply out of lack of their own conscious effort at controlling it.
The result is that the manifestation of their own lives resembles the mindless, egocentric hysterical yammering of a bitch.
There is a saying—Life is a bitch and then you die. I would also posit that the world itself, even the whole universe is a bitch, begging to be reined in and tamed. Is our world anything but a fucked up mess? Is your life anything but a fucked up mess? Examine it! Plato (or Aristotle??) said that the unexamined life is not worth living. How true. Your life will not become a peaceful affair until you make the sexual activity going on in your mind a peaceful affair. Become Conscious! Alert! Aware! Always! Only then can it finally stop.