SEX WITH A LOVER, SEX WITH GOD—SAME RESULT
Having sex with someone is no different on a deep level from being completely engaged and immersed in any other thing one so desires. Whether you are deeply involved in some creative artistic endeavor that totally consumes you and gives you immense joy, or whether you are totally consumed with the giving of yourself totally to one or more human beings, the activity of which gives you immense joy, the end result is the same—total joyous union with the object of desire.
In the case of a yogi, the object of desire is God.
In the case of a lover, the object of desire is the beloved.
The yogi desires union with God. The lover seeks union with the beloved. If the union is achieved, the result is the same—orgasmic joy resulting from union with the object of desire..
In deepest meditation, the yogi experiences orgasmic joy that results from unifying him/herself to the Infinite.
At the climax of the loving sexual act, both lovers experience orgasmic joy that results from unifying themselves to each other, the principal underlying idea being that each lover sees the other as the physical embodiment of God with which they seek union.