SELF CONTROL IS LIFE CONTROL
What remember only what we have reactions to. Whatever gets our attention is what our experience of life is. If one has no more reactions to anything during life, then he has truly learned self control. Such a person of self control may look bored at times, but he is just absorbed within the Truth found within himself.
Eternal life must be total absorption within the self. Such a person chooses to leave life when they wish to do so.
En-joy. Be In-Joy. Be in joy. Do what attracts your attention, doing for the benefit of others. Do what you can. That is all you can do. All you can do alone. Enjoy your work. Do what you enjoy.