THE FOOLISH FOLLY OF MODERN LOVE (as it’s currently practiced)
As far as standard relationships go, they rarely (if ever) work. The reason for this is that the participants have their polarities mixed up. Each is trying to find in the other what they should be finding within themselves first, from Divinity within.
The majority of men in this world are not connected to their true selves, to God inside. This is the Source of their true masculinity. But since most men are disconnected from this part of themselves, they don’t truly have the masculine energy to give to a woman. Instead of looking for what they need from God, they mistakenly think they can find it in the woman who attracts them the most. Instead of connecting to Source so they can give forth the loving masculine energy a woman needs to respond with love, most men look to find a source of love first from a woman.
This is a grave mistake. It never works. This is a faulty process of trying to create the small cycle without the help of the big cycle. It is like trying to give someone all of your blood without simultaneously replacing it as it ebbs away from your veins. If this harkens to mind the culture of the vampire, it is with good reason. A woman naturally drains male energy from a man. There is nothing wrong with this, it is just the way it is. The negative wants the energy of the positive. If a man is not connected to God and thereby becoming a constant channel of male energy, then the end result of a typical relationship is always the same—the woman totally drains a man of all of his masculine energy. The relationship fails utterly and completely. Neither participant is happy. Both are miserable.
The heart of the problem lies in the fact that (according to one very ancient perspective I totally agree with) we human beings do not belong here, not as in ‘on earth’ exactly but rather here in 3d physical ‘reality’. As a result of our souls coming here, we are having a false experience of being separate from each other as well as disconnected from our Source or Divinity Itself.
We simply do not perceive things correctly. We look at each other and think that we see in the other person all that we want or all that we think we are missing and we try to get it from the other instead of looking within first. So a man looks at a woman and thinks that the love he needs comes from her firstly. Wrong. A woman is not the Source.
A woman is akin to a kind of spiritual-biological type of electrical transformer. Plug in the right kind of energy, and the energy gets transformed and is expelled out back to the source of that energy.
But a man is similar in this function. He (ideally) plugs into Divinity, receives spiritual energy, transforms and channels this out of himself into a woman.
As can be seen, each is like the other. Both receive energy, transform it, and then project it outwards.
The first half of the Divine process begins with a Divine Man who is connected to God, receives spiritual energy from God, transforms it, and is ready to project spiritual energy the woman naturally wants and needs. The other half of the process begins with a Divine Woman who is connected to Earth and is ready to receive the spiritual energy from the Divine Man, transform it, and give it back to him.
The majority of the world has turned this process on its head. In most relationships, women rule the relationship for the reason that the man is not connected to God but is busy trying to get the spiritual energy he naturally wants and needs from a woman, who is not the source of spiritual energy. This man is weak, wimpy and “pussy whipped” to use the common vernacular.
The reason he is pussy whipped is because he thinks that Love is to be found straight from the woman without any effort on his part. He mistakenly thinks the Source of Spiritual Energy is found firstly in the woman and he can simply drain it from her. He is paradoxically drained as a result. He never realizes that it is God’s Spiritual Energy that he needs first in order to receive what he wants so desperately—Love. The Love he seeks from a woman cannot be found unless he channels pure Spiritual energy into her which he then receives from her.
Women apparently don’t realize these truths either. They attach themselves to a man, marry him and think that she has found a channel or conduit of spiritual energy of God’s masculine Love she needs to give forth that Love herself. But she is mistaken. She naturally drains him like a vampire, absorbing all of his masculine energy turning him into a shell of a man, empty & devoid of all life. And when she begins to realize this on a deep level, the result is that she turns into a nag or “bitch” to use another common term. She will constantly bitch at her man because she is not receiving the spiritual energy she needs and wants.
And so the result is the same. A disastrous marriage. Sometimes divorce. Is it any wonder that the divorce rate is now at or above 50%?
If relationships continue as they are, then failure will always be the result. It can be no other way.
